Discipline woes - Please Help!?

talk to them and if they dont listen, them. try not to too much b/c truly, sometimes thats not the way to do it. like if u one of ur kids he/she might not care and that method wont work, but they might listen if u talk. the other just might get scared because u ed em, and the other might just flat out back off if u em. thats why they say doesnt work. well thats really only half true.